"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what do you usually wear?

Rash

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I have a military haircut and I usually wear construction or military boots , leather jacket(in winter) , old boot cut blue jeans and muscle shirts, I don't know if girls like this type of clothing but thats what I feel comfortable wearing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KontrollerX

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Black pants and shirt.

With the shirt usually having some cool symbol on it.
 

Obsidian

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yeah, for the most part, i try not to care too much what girls think of my clothing -- except on special occasions
 

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all depends on where i'm going and what i'm doing.

usually on a day to day basis, i'm in either jeans and a polo type shirt, and tennis shoes or dress button down shirt, slacks and dress shoes.

if i'm lounging around the house i'm normally in wind breaker or sweat pants and a wife beater or t-shirt. if i'm having a lazy weekend, i'll wear this also.

if i'm going out to the club, it's nothing less than a suit. tie is optional

sunday is always whatever pants i feel like wearing and a Seattle Seahawks jersey. GO HAWKS!!!
 

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yea I think feeling comfortable is the priority, I posted this because I always see my friends trying their best to wear what girls like.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oh god. I don't see why anyone would WILLINGLY wear a gayass military haircut.
 

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Yapper said:
oh god. I don't see why anyone would WILLINGLY wear a gayass military haircut.
because I like to do it and no body asked your gay-fat-ass opinion :up:
 

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I'm an older dude so I wear pretty expensive stuff. I'm after the money, so I have to show money. I want money with t-and-a so it's a more liberated look than what I wear to work.

My point is to dress to impress yourself, be comfortable. You do dress to send a message about who you are. You never know who might be attracted to that message though. I'm been surprised by goth teenies coming up to me and talking to me in my business suits. I think they could see my confidence and were attracted. She wasn't my type but I did get some insight into her world.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I don't buy exspensive clothes. But, I do but nice looking clothes that are color coordinated. Women like guys who match with their outfit. Example; Red hat with red t-shirt and white nike's with a red nike symbol. This may sound ridiculous but, when love it! (from my experience.) I also get compliments from wearing boots. Women think its a sexy/manly type of thing. Another tip I would suggest is.. Iron your clothes before you go out!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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