I have a military haircut and I usually wear construction or military boots , leather jacket(in winter) , old boot cut blue jeans and muscle shirts, I don't know if girls like this type of clothing but thats what I feel comfortable wearing.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
what do you usually wear?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
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Black pants and shirt.
With the shirt usually having some cool symbol on it.
With the shirt usually having some cool symbol on it.
kdnash82
Master Don Juan
all depends on where i'm going and what i'm doing.
usually on a day to day basis, i'm in either jeans and a polo type shirt, and tennis shoes or dress button down shirt, slacks and dress shoes.
if i'm lounging around the house i'm normally in wind breaker or sweat pants and a wife beater or t-shirt. if i'm having a lazy weekend, i'll wear this also.
if i'm going out to the club, it's nothing less than a suit. tie is optional
sunday is always whatever pants i feel like wearing and a Seattle Seahawks jersey. GO HAWKS!!!
usually on a day to day basis, i'm in either jeans and a polo type shirt, and tennis shoes or dress button down shirt, slacks and dress shoes.
if i'm lounging around the house i'm normally in wind breaker or sweat pants and a wife beater or t-shirt. if i'm having a lazy weekend, i'll wear this also.
if i'm going out to the club, it's nothing less than a suit. tie is optional
sunday is always whatever pants i feel like wearing and a Seattle Seahawks jersey. GO HAWKS!!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm an older dude so I wear pretty expensive stuff. I'm after the money, so I have to show money. I want money with t-and-a so it's a more liberated look than what I wear to work.
My point is to dress to impress yourself, be comfortable. You do dress to send a message about who you are. You never know who might be attracted to that message though. I'm been surprised by goth teenies coming up to me and talking to me in my business suits. I think they could see my confidence and were attracted. She wasn't my type but I did get some insight into her world.
My point is to dress to impress yourself, be comfortable. You do dress to send a message about who you are. You never know who might be attracted to that message though. I'm been surprised by goth teenies coming up to me and talking to me in my business suits. I think they could see my confidence and were attracted. She wasn't my type but I did get some insight into her world.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I don't buy exspensive clothes. But, I do but nice looking clothes that are color coordinated. Women like guys who match with their outfit. Example; Red hat with red t-shirt and white nike's with a red nike symbol. This may sound ridiculous but, when love it! (from my experience.) I also get compliments from wearing boots. Women think its a sexy/manly type of thing. Another tip I would suggest is.. Iron your clothes before you go out!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.