"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what do you think of this pick up line?

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I don't like it when people ask theoretical questions on forums. my reply to such questions is always "go out and try it on 10 girls and there is your answer"
but I have been meaning to try this line and haven't been out and whenever I have been out I haven't run into reasonably attractive girls. I have been itching to find out how a reasonably attractive would react to this:
"excuse me, I am sure you don't get this all the time, but you're very pretty"
by reasonably attractive I mean she is not fat and disgusting to look at, just average or better.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Too obvious. Never tell a woman exactly what you mean, always make them think about what you said
 
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Kotaix said:
Too obvious. Never tell a woman exactly what you mean, always make them think about what you said
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but the lamo would say "I am sure you get this all the time" I am saying "I am sure you don't get this all the time"
 
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You’re very pretty. Good looking women get that statement All the time…
Use something unique.
 
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OP , you compliment her clothing, never her features, she is looking for a man she can submit to not a man who fawns over her
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don’t compliment anything related to how a woman looks. She needs to earn my compliments by impressing me with something she didn’t get for free like her good looks that her parents DNA gave her. Or her shoes that were made in a factory in China. She didn’t make them.
 
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Glassguy said:
Exactly.

Pick up line in today's dating world: Hey whats up?
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“Hey what’s shakin’ tootz” is one that gets a laugh 9 times out of 10 for me. Funny yet simple.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't compliment a girl so easly, a compliment should be something she has to earn not something you give out like candy to every girl you see.
 
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