"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mauvilla4

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I overnegged a girl (19 YO, a 7 in a place where 9's and 10's are almost unicorns) I’m trying to bed and the conversation went like this:
Her: my BF has better abs than you. (She often touches my abs and sees me shirtless because we work out together, nevertheless there’s no way her BF has better abs).
Me: Yeah? What else?
Her: My BF is more chivalrous than you.
Me: Yeah? What else?
Her: I’m gonna tell my boyfriend to beat you up.
Me: hahah (me repeating that with a childlike high pitched voice ” I’m gonna tell my boyfriend to beat you up.”
Me: Your BF pays you more attention than I do... Right?
After that she nervously laughed and agreed, and our conversation went back to normality… But I wondered if I could have handle it better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alvafe

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yeah, you should go to sleep and stop wasting time
 
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I liked it. You could of added that boyfriends are good to keep your feet warm or when you’re having a rough time, but most of the time they are better off under the bed for safe keeping.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Spaz

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You are 31 year old guy worrying about what 19 year old girl said to you.

Think about it.
He got suckered into her 19 yo frame..

I would have just smiled and hold eye contact, until she realises how ridiculous it sounds and looks away to signal submission.

Then I'd carry on talking bringing her to my frame...
 

Tilex

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Sounds like high school all over again.
 

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He got suckered into her 19 yo frame..

I would have just smiled and hold eye contact, until she realises how ridiculous it sounds and looks away to signal submission.

Then I'd carry on talking bringing her to my frame...
Agreed. Any "what should have I said in response" questions like these miss the point. It matters little what is actually said. Women can be very attuned to your degree of frame control.
 
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