Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah COVID-19 has put that on hold for now.I've found pure street game to be difficult
As for the video:What do you think about this PUA guru's day game?
It seems awkward if you are riding a bike and you are under a strict deadline as to when you need to go from point A to point B on that trail.On recreational hiking/walking paths, you can usually find a choke point where foot traffic passes where the approach will look far more natural.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Biking is an activity that isn't going to work well with pickup unless you decide to linger around a resting point on a path for a while.It seems awkward if you are riding a bike and you are under a strict deadline as to when you need to go from point A to point B on that trail.
Although one approach I made on a Black girl in 2015 did end up with a french kiss where I groped her at the same time, I still think that moment was written in the stars as I "felt" something was going to happen on that trail that year. I just don't feel the motivation much lately when I'm biking and also do wear a mask (and see others wear masks) when on these trials.