You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah COVID-19 has put that on hold for now.I've found pure street game to be difficult
As for the video:What do you think about this PUA guru's day game?
It seems awkward if you are riding a bike and you are under a strict deadline as to when you need to go from point A to point B on that trail.On recreational hiking/walking paths, you can usually find a choke point where foot traffic passes where the approach will look far more natural.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Biking is an activity that isn't going to work well with pickup unless you decide to linger around a resting point on a path for a while.It seems awkward if you are riding a bike and you are under a strict deadline as to when you need to go from point A to point B on that trail.
Although one approach I made on a Black girl in 2015 did end up with a french kiss where I groped her at the same time, I still think that moment was written in the stars as I "felt" something was going to happen on that trail that year. I just don't feel the motivation much lately when I'm biking and also do wear a mask (and see others wear masks) when on these trials.