Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah COVID-19 has put that on hold for now.I've found pure street game to be difficult
As for the video:What do you think about this PUA guru's day game?
It seems awkward if you are riding a bike and you are under a strict deadline as to when you need to go from point A to point B on that trail.On recreational hiking/walking paths, you can usually find a choke point where foot traffic passes where the approach will look far more natural.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Biking is an activity that isn't going to work well with pickup unless you decide to linger around a resting point on a path for a while.It seems awkward if you are riding a bike and you are under a strict deadline as to when you need to go from point A to point B on that trail.
Although one approach I made on a Black girl in 2015 did end up with a french kiss where I groped her at the same time, I still think that moment was written in the stars as I "felt" something was going to happen on that trail that year. I just don't feel the motivation much lately when I'm biking and also do wear a mask (and see others wear masks) when on these trials.