You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah COVID-19 has put that on hold for now.I've found pure street game to be difficult
As for the video:What do you think about this PUA guru's day game?
It seems awkward if you are riding a bike and you are under a strict deadline as to when you need to go from point A to point B on that trail.On recreational hiking/walking paths, you can usually find a choke point where foot traffic passes where the approach will look far more natural.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Biking is an activity that isn't going to work well with pickup unless you decide to linger around a resting point on a path for a while.It seems awkward if you are riding a bike and you are under a strict deadline as to when you need to go from point A to point B on that trail.
Although one approach I made on a Black girl in 2015 did end up with a french kiss where I groped her at the same time, I still think that moment was written in the stars as I "felt" something was going to happen on that trail that year. I just don't feel the motivation much lately when I'm biking and also do wear a mask (and see others wear masks) when on these trials.