You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Besides that she is a young, female version of Bernie Madoff.
I'd always thought she had a mediocre level of beauty (although she is slender), but this pic makes her look much better:
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If someone showed you the clip starting at 2:36 and said she was a robot most believe it. The way she's nodding her head with her eyes open so wide they want to pop out her head is like she's glitching. This person is either a clone or possessed by some demons. Human clones are known to not blink or have belly buttons.This is a classic example of how she plays on insecurity. Notice how she holds an intense gaze and feigns laughter which makes the interviewer feel "special". Never underestimate how ego-fragile the vast majority of sheep really are, Holmes managed to con many so-called moguls (supposedly these people are geniuses) in Silicon Valley simply by smiling and laughing at their lame jokes.
Caveat: holding an intense gaze is something only women can pull off without looking creepy, because the label of "creepy" doesn't apply to women. If a man tries to run holding-intense-gaze game, he damn well better make sure he's Chad certified otherwise he's going to look like a total creeper.
EDIT: btw, at 0:45 look at those effeminate goons sitting with their legs crossed and eating up all the bs nonsense coming out of Holmes' mouth..... western men as a collective are an absolute joke, it's no wonder women don't respect men anymore.
It's pretty easy for girls to make guys feel special. Most guys don't get much attention from girls, so any overt display from a woman suggesting she might be into him is going to make him feel good.This is a classic example of how she plays on insecurity. Notice how she holds an intense gaze and feigns laughter which makes the interviewer feel "special". Never underestimate how ego-fragile the vast majority of sheep really are, Holmes managed to con many so-called moguls (supposedly these people are geniuses) in Silicon Valley simply by smiling and laughing at their lame jokes.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When you look deep into her case, it is extremely troubling how far she was able to get, how much support she was able to garner, like she received a sign off from Henry freakin Kissinger, along with others but his name stands out.Well she's obviously a master at manipulation. Now she's all good with a rich fiancé who is very likely to be another simp.
Kissinger is the horniest man that most folks don't realize how horny he is.When you look deep into her case, it is extremely troubling how far she was able to get, how much support she was able to garner, like she received a sign off from Henry freakin Kissinger, along with others but his name stands out.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well, at some time during her 135 month sentence, I’ll betcha she might learn not to lie, and might eventually make her parents proud of her …I think she's going to jail.
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Elizabeth Holmes Sentencing Updates: Former Theranos CEO Sentenced to Over 11 Years in Prison
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.