"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you say when they say they don't like to type?

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Ok...I have this girl I email from time to time just to keep in touch. I have sent long emails not novels to her and gotten short ones in return. Now this indicates a lack of interest. I was fed up and called her out on it. I told her that it frustrated me when I wrote a nice email and received short one in return.

The next one I got was lengthy. In it she said you know i dont like to type.. Um ya..
You and your phone are conected at the hip
..always checking your messages and texting....should i just let this slide call her out on her hipocrocy? Start short texting her? Thoughts? Would an alpha call her out or just move along? She is a good friend but I don't want to be a door mat.and don't want to come across as needy.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Here is an example....you don't like to type? Then why is your phone fused to your hand and you check it constantly? I think you might need a 12 step program for your addiction!
 
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Why would you bother? It makes you seem needy, desperate and way more invested than her. Basically all the things the typical AFC does.

If she isn't interested, she isn't interested. Just keep it moving
 
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marmel75 said:
Why would you bother? It makes you seem needy, desperate and way more invested than her. Basically all the things the typical AFC does.

If she isn't interested, she isn't interested. Just keep it moving
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I knew this just needed to hear it from the board.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mate you're tuffer than that. If its all long distance as my mate says " my **** don't stretch that far"
 
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dustmuffin said:
Ok...I have this girl I email from time to time just to keep in touch. I have sent long emails not novels to her and gotten short ones in return. Now this indicates a lack of interest. I was fed up and called her out on it. I told her that it frustrated me when I wrote a nice email and received short one in return.

The next one I got was lengthy. In it she said you know i dont like to type.. Um ya..
You and your phone are conected at the hip
..always checking your messages and texting....should i just let this slide call her out on her hipocrocy? Start short texting her? Thoughts? Would an alpha call her out or just move along? She is a good friend but I don't want to be a door mat.and don't want to come across as needy.
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Why do you want to stay in touch with someone who doesn't want to stay in touch with you? I don't get it
 
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Dude, call her and ask her on a date. All this communication is a waste of time.

No written conversations. Always remember that anything you say will always be there. Get off the text / email /ASAP.
 
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Dude, call her and ask her on a date. All this communication is a waste of time.

No written conversations. Always remember that anything you say will always be there. Get off the text / email /ASAP.
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ty she lives in another country.....I will just cut down. I don't want to pay to talk to her on the phone Can't go on date.....I have an ex gf in Sweden but she calls me. So she pays....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Who the hell emails anymore
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Pretty much this. "Email game" was great 15 years ago. Long, flirty, sexy emails were very popular in the past. It was the core of early OLD. Today, it's a short email to get her number and then it's on to texting or immediately meeting up in person. In all fairness to women, there are SO many guys online now, that women can't keep up with hundreds of lengthy emails anymore.
 
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You can't put that much effort into communicating with a girl, even if you like to write like I do. Worst thing you can do is to have some female thinking you don't have anything better to do with your time other than communicating with her.
 
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I actually assumed the OP was describing a plutonic relationship with a long lost female friend and he was trying to reconnect with her... that's what I assumed because it was the only thing that made sense. I still didn't understand the point of the posting about it but...

OP, you want to bang her?? So confused.. why are you writing someone long e-mails, especially to someone who isn't reciprocating? Why would you even consider calling her out on it? I seriously don't understand what's happening here. I need the Jackie Chan meme right now.
 
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