"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you say when they say they don't like to type?

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Ok...I have this girl I email from time to time just to keep in touch. I have sent long emails not novels to her and gotten short ones in return. Now this indicates a lack of interest. I was fed up and called her out on it. I told her that it frustrated me when I wrote a nice email and received short one in return.

The next one I got was lengthy. In it she said you know i dont like to type.. Um ya..
You and your phone are conected at the hip
..always checking your messages and texting....should i just let this slide call her out on her hipocrocy? Start short texting her? Thoughts? Would an alpha call her out or just move along? She is a good friend but I don't want to be a door mat.and don't want to come across as needy.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Here is an example....you don't like to type? Then why is your phone fused to your hand and you check it constantly? I think you might need a 12 step program for your addiction!
 
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Why would you bother? It makes you seem needy, desperate and way more invested than her. Basically all the things the typical AFC does.

If she isn't interested, she isn't interested. Just keep it moving
 
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marmel75 said:
Why would you bother? It makes you seem needy, desperate and way more invested than her. Basically all the things the typical AFC does.

If she isn't interested, she isn't interested. Just keep it moving
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I knew this just needed to hear it from the board.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mate you're tuffer than that. If its all long distance as my mate says " my **** don't stretch that far"
 
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dustmuffin said:
Ok...I have this girl I email from time to time just to keep in touch. I have sent long emails not novels to her and gotten short ones in return. Now this indicates a lack of interest. I was fed up and called her out on it. I told her that it frustrated me when I wrote a nice email and received short one in return.

The next one I got was lengthy. In it she said you know i dont like to type.. Um ya..
You and your phone are conected at the hip
..always checking your messages and texting....should i just let this slide call her out on her hipocrocy? Start short texting her? Thoughts? Would an alpha call her out or just move along? She is a good friend but I don't want to be a door mat.and don't want to come across as needy.
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Why do you want to stay in touch with someone who doesn't want to stay in touch with you? I don't get it
 
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Dude, call her and ask her on a date. All this communication is a waste of time.

No written conversations. Always remember that anything you say will always be there. Get off the text / email /ASAP.
 
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Dude, call her and ask her on a date. All this communication is a waste of time.

No written conversations. Always remember that anything you say will always be there. Get off the text / email /ASAP.
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ty she lives in another country.....I will just cut down. I don't want to pay to talk to her on the phone Can't go on date.....I have an ex gf in Sweden but she calls me. So she pays....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Who the hell emails anymore
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Pretty much this. "Email game" was great 15 years ago. Long, flirty, sexy emails were very popular in the past. It was the core of early OLD. Today, it's a short email to get her number and then it's on to texting or immediately meeting up in person. In all fairness to women, there are SO many guys online now, that women can't keep up with hundreds of lengthy emails anymore.
 
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You can't put that much effort into communicating with a girl, even if you like to write like I do. Worst thing you can do is to have some female thinking you don't have anything better to do with your time other than communicating with her.
 
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I actually assumed the OP was describing a plutonic relationship with a long lost female friend and he was trying to reconnect with her... that's what I assumed because it was the only thing that made sense. I still didn't understand the point of the posting about it but...

OP, you want to bang her?? So confused.. why are you writing someone long e-mails, especially to someone who isn't reciprocating? Why would you even consider calling her out on it? I seriously don't understand what's happening here. I need the Jackie Chan meme right now.
 
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