"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What do you guys think?

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I need help with a girl. I don't really know if she likes me or not.
I'm 17, she's 16.

She claims to be in love with another guy for 4 months now.
I "noticed" her and started talking to her 3 weeks ago.

Now people keep saying she likes me and the other dude.
I've grown fond of this girl and i think she likes me too.

She is always flirting with me and i with her (calling me gay, all those **** tests).
She said she liked me 2 times now but i cant say if she's joking or not.
She holds eye contact very often.
We "fight" alot.
There was even a strange moment where she told me she loved me, and i thought she was joking because she was supposed to like the other guy, but then she started crying and saying that i needed to believe in her, that she really wanted me. I was... perplexed? I think that's the word, yes.
Then she told me to leave her and that she was joking. That she faked all that. I don't really believe that.

What do you guys think? Does she like me?


Sorry i posted this in 2 forums. Didn't know where to post.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok,if you really love her,and dont let her go!Win her back,if she loves you,you'll get her.
 

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Samuel Xiao said:
Ok,if you really love her,and dont let her go!Win her back,if she loves you,you'll get her.
That's kinda confusing, but thanks.
 

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You're pretty young, so keeping it R-rated....know that 16 year old girls like to ACT like they have control over their raging hormones but they really don't. She doesn't know what the hell she's doing.

Whenever a girl claims she likes two guys, she's being full of horse sh*t It goes against the female nature to ACTUALLY love two guys. Only ONE guy's sperm will fertilize her egg, and there most definitely is one guy she wants it to happen with over the other. However its NOT against their nature to cuckold one with the other.

From what you've said, I feel its either (1) She likes him more than you (sorry, bud). (2) She finds you both relatively attractive, but neither of you have given her any gina tingles. Ya smell me?


Know that for your age, the REAL question you need to answer is this:

Who is the guy she's giving sandpapery handjobs to in the parking lot?
 

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LostAndConfused said:
You're pretty young, so keeping it R-rated....know that 16 year old girls like to ACT like they have control over their raging hormones but they really don't. She doesn't know what the hell she's doing.

Whenever a girl claims she likes two guys, she's being full of horse sh*t It goes against the female nature to ACTUALLY love two guys. Only ONE guy's sperm will fertilize her egg, and there most definitely is one guy she wants it to happen with over the other. However its NOT against their nature to cuckold one with the other.

From what you've said, I feel its either (1) She likes him more than you (sorry, bud). (2) She finds you both relatively attractive, but neither of you have given her any gina tingles. Ya smell me?


Know that for your age, the REAL question you need to answer is this:

Who is the guy she's giving sandpapery handjobs to in the parking lot?
Ahah yeah i smell you. Thanks for the reply btw.

What i would like to know too is if it is possible to make her like me more than him?
By building more attraction ?

Sorry i didn't really understood that sandpapery handjob thingy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Welcome to the world of dating 16 year old's when you are 17.

Nothing is more powerful in the Universe than such a "woman" when you are that age. She's behaving normally. She'll have intense feelings but be cyclical. Wait until her next phase. Don't be jealous of him. Let her talk about the relationship. You meanwhile will be telling her about all the other women you are dating, and how they love you but just aren't the one.
 

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bigneil said:
Welcome to the world of dating 16 year old's when you are 17.

Nothing is more powerful in the Universe than such a "woman" when you are that age. She's behaving normally. She'll have intense feelings but be cyclical. Wait until her next phase. Don't be jealous of him. Let her talk about the relationship. You meanwhile will be telling her about all the other women you are dating, and how they love you but just aren't the one.
Thanks!

I'll have that in mind :D
 
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