"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What do you guys think?

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I need help with a girl. I don't really know if she likes me or not.
I'm 17, she's 16.

She claims to be in love with another guy for 4 months now.
I "noticed" her and started talking to her 3 weeks ago.

Now people keep saying she likes me and the other dude.
I've grown fond of this girl and i think she likes me too.

She is always flirting with me and i with her (calling me gay, all those **** tests).
She said she liked me 2 times now but i cant say if she's joking or not.
She holds eye contact very often.
We "fight" alot.
There was even a strange moment where she told me she loved me, and i thought she was joking because she was supposed to like the other guy, but then she started crying and saying that i needed to believe in her, that she really wanted me. I was... perplexed? I think that's the word, yes.
Then she told me to leave her and that she was joking. That she faked all that. I don't really believe that.

What do you guys think? Does she like me?


Sorry i posted this in 2 forums. Didn't know where to post.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok,if you really love her,and dont let her go!Win her back,if she loves you,you'll get her.
 

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Samuel Xiao said:
Ok,if you really love her,and dont let her go!Win her back,if she loves you,you'll get her.
That's kinda confusing, but thanks.
 

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You're pretty young, so keeping it R-rated....know that 16 year old girls like to ACT like they have control over their raging hormones but they really don't. She doesn't know what the hell she's doing.

Whenever a girl claims she likes two guys, she's being full of horse sh*t It goes against the female nature to ACTUALLY love two guys. Only ONE guy's sperm will fertilize her egg, and there most definitely is one guy she wants it to happen with over the other. However its NOT against their nature to cuckold one with the other.

From what you've said, I feel its either (1) She likes him more than you (sorry, bud). (2) She finds you both relatively attractive, but neither of you have given her any gina tingles. Ya smell me?


Know that for your age, the REAL question you need to answer is this:

Who is the guy she's giving sandpapery handjobs to in the parking lot?
 

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LostAndConfused said:
You're pretty young, so keeping it R-rated....know that 16 year old girls like to ACT like they have control over their raging hormones but they really don't. She doesn't know what the hell she's doing.

Whenever a girl claims she likes two guys, she's being full of horse sh*t It goes against the female nature to ACTUALLY love two guys. Only ONE guy's sperm will fertilize her egg, and there most definitely is one guy she wants it to happen with over the other. However its NOT against their nature to cuckold one with the other.

From what you've said, I feel its either (1) She likes him more than you (sorry, bud). (2) She finds you both relatively attractive, but neither of you have given her any gina tingles. Ya smell me?


Know that for your age, the REAL question you need to answer is this:

Who is the guy she's giving sandpapery handjobs to in the parking lot?
Ahah yeah i smell you. Thanks for the reply btw.

What i would like to know too is if it is possible to make her like me more than him?
By building more attraction ?

Sorry i didn't really understood that sandpapery handjob thingy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Welcome to the world of dating 16 year old's when you are 17.

Nothing is more powerful in the Universe than such a "woman" when you are that age. She's behaving normally. She'll have intense feelings but be cyclical. Wait until her next phase. Don't be jealous of him. Let her talk about the relationship. You meanwhile will be telling her about all the other women you are dating, and how they love you but just aren't the one.
 

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bigneil said:
Welcome to the world of dating 16 year old's when you are 17.

Nothing is more powerful in the Universe than such a "woman" when you are that age. She's behaving normally. She'll have intense feelings but be cyclical. Wait until her next phase. Don't be jealous of him. Let her talk about the relationship. You meanwhile will be telling her about all the other women you are dating, and how they love you but just aren't the one.
Thanks!

I'll have that in mind :D
 
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