"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you guys think?

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I need help with a girl. I don't really know if she likes me or not.
I'm 17, she's 16.

She claims to be in love with another guy for 4 months now.
I "noticed" her and started talking to her 3 weeks ago.

Now people keep saying she likes me and the other dude.
I've grown fond of this girl and i think she likes me too.

She is always flirting with me and i with her (calling me gay, all those **** tests).
She said she liked me 2 times now but i cant say if she's joking or not.
She holds eye contact very often.
We "fight" alot.
There was even a strange moment where she told me she loved me, and i thought she was joking because she was supposed to like the other guy, but then she started crying and saying that i needed to believe in her, that she really wanted me. I was... perplexed? I think that's the word, yes.
Then she told me to leave her and that she was joking. That she faked all that. I don't really believe that.

What do you guys think? Does she like me?


Sorry i posted this in 2 forums. Didn't know where to post.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok,if you really love her,and dont let her go!Win her back,if she loves you,you'll get her.
 
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Samuel Xiao said:
Ok,if you really love her,and dont let her go!Win her back,if she loves you,you'll get her.
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That's kinda confusing, but thanks.
 
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You're pretty young, so keeping it R-rated....know that 16 year old girls like to ACT like they have control over their raging hormones but they really don't. She doesn't know what the hell she's doing.

Whenever a girl claims she likes two guys, she's being full of horse sh*t It goes against the female nature to ACTUALLY love two guys. Only ONE guy's sperm will fertilize her egg, and there most definitely is one guy she wants it to happen with over the other. However its NOT against their nature to cuckold one with the other.

From what you've said, I feel its either (1) She likes him more than you (sorry, bud). (2) She finds you both relatively attractive, but neither of you have given her any gina tingles. Ya smell me?


Know that for your age, the REAL question you need to answer is this:

Who is the guy she's giving sandpapery handjobs to in the parking lot?
 
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LostAndConfused said:
You're pretty young, so keeping it R-rated....know that 16 year old girls like to ACT like they have control over their raging hormones but they really don't. She doesn't know what the hell she's doing.

Whenever a girl claims she likes two guys, she's being full of horse sh*t It goes against the female nature to ACTUALLY love two guys. Only ONE guy's sperm will fertilize her egg, and there most definitely is one guy she wants it to happen with over the other. However its NOT against their nature to cuckold one with the other.

From what you've said, I feel its either (1) She likes him more than you (sorry, bud). (2) She finds you both relatively attractive, but neither of you have given her any gina tingles. Ya smell me?


Know that for your age, the REAL question you need to answer is this:

Who is the guy she's giving sandpapery handjobs to in the parking lot?
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Ahah yeah i smell you. Thanks for the reply btw.

What i would like to know too is if it is possible to make her like me more than him?
By building more attraction ?

Sorry i didn't really understood that sandpapery handjob thingy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Welcome to the world of dating 16 year old's when you are 17.

Nothing is more powerful in the Universe than such a "woman" when you are that age. She's behaving normally. She'll have intense feelings but be cyclical. Wait until her next phase. Don't be jealous of him. Let her talk about the relationship. You meanwhile will be telling her about all the other women you are dating, and how they love you but just aren't the one.
 
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bigneil said:
Welcome to the world of dating 16 year old's when you are 17.

Nothing is more powerful in the Universe than such a "woman" when you are that age. She's behaving normally. She'll have intense feelings but be cyclical. Wait until her next phase. Don't be jealous of him. Let her talk about the relationship. You meanwhile will be telling her about all the other women you are dating, and how they love you but just aren't the one.
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Thanks!

I'll have that in mind :D
 
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