"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you guys think?

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I need help with a girl. I don't really know if she likes me or not.
I'm 17, she's 16.

She claims to be in love with another guy for 4 months now.
I "noticed" her and started talking to her 3 weeks ago.

Now people keep saying she likes me and the other dude.
I've grown fond of this girl and i think she likes me too.

She is always flirting with me and i with her (calling me gay, all those **** tests).
She said she liked me 2 times now but i cant say if she's joking or not.
She holds eye contact very often.
We "fight" alot.
There was even a strange moment where she told me she loved me, and i thought she was joking because she was supposed to like the other guy, but then she started crying and saying that i needed to believe in her, that she really wanted me. I was... perplexed? I think that's the word, yes.
Then she told me to leave her and that she was joking. That she faked all that. I don't really believe that.

What do you guys think? Does she like me?


Sorry i posted this in 2 forums. Didn't know where to post.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok,if you really love her,and dont let her go!Win her back,if she loves you,you'll get her.
 

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Samuel Xiao said:
Ok,if you really love her,and dont let her go!Win her back,if she loves you,you'll get her.
That's kinda confusing, but thanks.
 

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You're pretty young, so keeping it R-rated....know that 16 year old girls like to ACT like they have control over their raging hormones but they really don't. She doesn't know what the hell she's doing.

Whenever a girl claims she likes two guys, she's being full of horse sh*t It goes against the female nature to ACTUALLY love two guys. Only ONE guy's sperm will fertilize her egg, and there most definitely is one guy she wants it to happen with over the other. However its NOT against their nature to cuckold one with the other.

From what you've said, I feel its either (1) She likes him more than you (sorry, bud). (2) She finds you both relatively attractive, but neither of you have given her any gina tingles. Ya smell me?


Know that for your age, the REAL question you need to answer is this:

Who is the guy she's giving sandpapery handjobs to in the parking lot?
 

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LostAndConfused said:
You're pretty young, so keeping it R-rated....know that 16 year old girls like to ACT like they have control over their raging hormones but they really don't. She doesn't know what the hell she's doing.

Whenever a girl claims she likes two guys, she's being full of horse sh*t It goes against the female nature to ACTUALLY love two guys. Only ONE guy's sperm will fertilize her egg, and there most definitely is one guy she wants it to happen with over the other. However its NOT against their nature to cuckold one with the other.

From what you've said, I feel its either (1) She likes him more than you (sorry, bud). (2) She finds you both relatively attractive, but neither of you have given her any gina tingles. Ya smell me?


Know that for your age, the REAL question you need to answer is this:

Who is the guy she's giving sandpapery handjobs to in the parking lot?
Ahah yeah i smell you. Thanks for the reply btw.

What i would like to know too is if it is possible to make her like me more than him?
By building more attraction ?

Sorry i didn't really understood that sandpapery handjob thingy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Welcome to the world of dating 16 year old's when you are 17.

Nothing is more powerful in the Universe than such a "woman" when you are that age. She's behaving normally. She'll have intense feelings but be cyclical. Wait until her next phase. Don't be jealous of him. Let her talk about the relationship. You meanwhile will be telling her about all the other women you are dating, and how they love you but just aren't the one.
 

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bigneil said:
Welcome to the world of dating 16 year old's when you are 17.

Nothing is more powerful in the Universe than such a "woman" when you are that age. She's behaving normally. She'll have intense feelings but be cyclical. Wait until her next phase. Don't be jealous of him. Let her talk about the relationship. You meanwhile will be telling her about all the other women you are dating, and how they love you but just aren't the one.
Thanks!

I'll have that in mind :D
 
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