"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

What do you guys think about PUA's?

Blue Phoenix

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2004
Messages
1,335
Reaction score
27
ready123 said:
Tyler's point was the girl would pick up at 4 am because he's higher value, not that calling at 4 am demonstrates higher value
Yeah, that´s more or less the same thing. To me this has nothing to do with higher value, but that´s just me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

ready123

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2007
Messages
1,259
Reaction score
35
Location
Los Angeles
Blue Phoenix said:
Yeah, that´s more or less the same thing. To me this has nothing to do with higher value, but that´s just me.
another way to look at it is as supplication but with the genders reversed. and I think his definition of value, is perceived value, meaning what a girl thinks you're worth. not what type of man you really are

and it's not really a concept as it is a general observation. people react to those who they feel are higher value. it's the same reason a gorgeous girl can walk into a room and a bunch of guys who are talking pause the conversation to check her out

I wouldn't call a chick at an inconvenient time either, but if I did, and the girl picked up and was more than willing to talk to me, that says a lot about her interest in me
 

DJVladdy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2007
Messages
1,037
Reaction score
17
From what I've seen - the PUA I have most respect for is Matador. Other's like Mystery, TD.. are still geeks trying to cover it up with outrageous clothes and memorized routines.
 

horaholic

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2008
Messages
2,254
Reaction score
79
DJVladdy said:
From what I've seen - the PUA I have most respect for is Matador. Other's like Mystery, TD.. are still geeks trying to cover it up with outrageous clothes and memorized routines.
TD doesnt do that at all. He used too, but completely redefined his game, and started over using no lines or routines. I dont think he peacocks either. His game is 100% core confidence, and high self value. He teaches against using canned openers. He is totally impromptu. When he talks about calling a girl at 4 am, he is only saying that he wouldnt be afraid to if he wanted too. Its all about ultimate inner game, and having the balls to do crazy shyt everyone would be afraid to do. He'll use funny facial expressions for openers. He's the opposite of MM now, even though he used to do MM style himself. I'll have to look into Matador. I've never heard of him.

EDIT: I checked out Matador. He's one of Mystery's guys. He has the same canned routine game, nothing against them, cuz it obviously works, but its not for me. Im completely sold on TD, and RSD.
 
Last edited:

EFFORT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
2,115
Reaction score
45
Location
USA
wow its incredible how out of date a lot of you are
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

TheGameMaster

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 10, 2008
Messages
85
Reaction score
5
I hang around with quite a few PUA's and they are all very decent guys. So naturally I like them. I consider myself to be one in a sense. Being a PUA doesnt mean you are just out to bang as many girls as possible. To me being a PUA is about gaining enough experience with women that you aquire an ability with them to have choice. I want to be able to attract a decent wife when I am older, and to do so, im going to have to work for it. Might have gone abit off topic there, but asking the question what do you think about PUA's implies that they have a bad name
 
Top