Blue Phoenix
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Yeah, that´s more or less the same thing. To me this has nothing to do with higher value, but that´s just me.ready123 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What do you guys think about PUA's?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ready123
Master Don Juan
another way to look at it is as supplication but with the genders reversed. and I think his definition of value, is perceived value, meaning what a girl thinks you're worth. not what type of man you really areBlue Phoenix said:Yeah, that´s more or less the same thing. To me this has nothing to do with higher value, but that´s just me.
and it's not really a concept as it is a general observation. people react to those who they feel are higher value. it's the same reason a gorgeous girl can walk into a room and a bunch of guys who are talking pause the conversation to check her out
I wouldn't call a chick at an inconvenient time either, but if I did, and the girl picked up and was more than willing to talk to me, that says a lot about her interest in me
TD doesnt do that at all. He used too, but completely redefined his game, and started over using no lines or routines. I dont think he peacocks either. His game is 100% core confidence, and high self value. He teaches against using canned openers. He is totally impromptu. When he talks about calling a girl at 4 am, he is only saying that he wouldnt be afraid to if he wanted too. Its all about ultimate inner game, and having the balls to do crazy shyt everyone would be afraid to do. He'll use funny facial expressions for openers. He's the opposite of MM now, even though he used to do MM style himself. I'll have to look into Matador. I've never heard of him.DJVladdy said:From what I've seen - the PUA I have most respect for is Matador. Other's like Mystery, TD.. are still geeks trying to cover it up with outrageous clothes and memorized routines.
EDIT: I checked out Matador. He's one of Mystery's guys. He has the same canned routine game, nothing against them, cuz it obviously works, but its not for me. Im completely sold on TD, and RSD.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I hang around with quite a few PUA's and they are all very decent guys. So naturally I like them. I consider myself to be one in a sense. Being a PUA doesnt mean you are just out to bang as many girls as possible. To me being a PUA is about gaining enough experience with women that you aquire an ability with them to have choice. I want to be able to attract a decent wife when I am older, and to do so, im going to have to work for it. Might have gone abit off topic there, but asking the question what do you think about PUA's implies that they have a bad name