What do you guys look for in a woman?

[sangheilios]

I've noticed that a lot of guys just seem to take what they can get and have little in the way of standards in regards to what they'd actually want in potential gf material.

For me it's pretty simple;

- Have to be attracted to her- This one is a no brainer lol
- Exercises regularly and takes care of herself- I workout a lot and take care of myself so I see this as one out of compatibility.
- No drinking beyond a social level, drugs or smoking- Common sense
- No children- Not interested in raising another man's child
- Educated and reasonably intelligent- I'm pretty well read/educated so I need to be able to have conversations that go beyond gossip
- Has a life, friends, hobbies and interests of her own- Again, common sense
- No serious mental health or behavior issues- Everyone has their own little quirks, but I can't be in a relationship with someone who acts like a 12 year old.

The sad part is finding a woman who even meets half of those things is almost impossible, with 2/3 of women being overweight especially. As a 6'4", in shape and attractive white dude this is kind of disheartening to an extent but I'm sure she is out there.

 

[btownbuck2012]

-attractive
-good family background
-low partner count
-kind, empathetic nature
-conservative/republican

Haven’t found this woman yet and don’t plan to.

 

[Billtx49]

Honesty, a certain degree of sanity, and integrity …

 

[sangheilios]

-attractive
-good family background
-low partner count
-kind, empathetic nature
-conservative/republican

Haven’t found this woman yet and don’t plan to.

Living in Los Angeles you probably aren't going to find a woman who matches your political views and the rest of what you are looking for.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Living in Los Angeles you probably aren't going to find a woman who matches your political views and the rest of what you are looking for.

Lol yeah I know.

 

[darksprezzatura]

High Interest

 

[EyeBRollin]

Giving personality, slim to skinny (easier to bulk her up vs. get her to lose weight), attractive, confident, not religious, and at least a bachelor's degree.

 

[AttackFormation]

Summing it up beyond the obvious things (no kids, no smoking, good hygiene, bla bla)... in the moment after orgasm when your hormones change and enable you to look beyond wanting sex at her as a person, I still feel that I want her.

That's the most defining criteria I use.

 

[sangheilios]

Summing it up beyond the obvious things (no kids, no smoking, good hygiene, bla bla)... In the moment after having sex, when a man's hormones shift and you can look at her as a person without sex clouding the mind, I still feel that I want her.

What, you mean you don't want a woman with dentures, more rolls than a bakery and smokes like a chimney?

 

[AttackFormation]

What, you mean you don't want a woman with dentures, more rolls than a bakery and smokes like a chimney?

Heh, well I like fat girls so more rolls than a bakery would be sweet... lol.

 

[The_411]

Lol yeah I know.

San Diego might however.