Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Im thinking of getting a massage and going to the park with my dog to socialize and talk to random women on walking trails. What do you guys got planned?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What do you guys got planned Valentines Day?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Clockwerk50
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Most likely nothing. I have to buy gifts for the main girl and send Happy Valentine’s Day messages to the rest.
Redwood
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Working.
Serenity
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I'll be going to a cabin today for the weekend with a bunch of coworkers. Wife is staying home with the kids.
Because of that we moved it all to last Monday because it's the only day this week we had time together for it.
Anyways, on Monday I cooked a nice meal for us, we had a couple glasses of wine, I gave her Lego roses, we spent some time building it together and went to fvck before going to sleep.
Because of that we moved it all to last Monday because it's the only day this week we had time together for it.
Anyways, on Monday I cooked a nice meal for us, we had a couple glasses of wine, I gave her Lego roses, we spent some time building it together and went to fvck before going to sleep.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Lol does your wife knows about this site? You do get paid right?
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Took one of my acquisitions to a screening of Heart Eyes, after which we spent some time in the hot tub
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
GF & I are in the Carribean. So diner & there is a VD party at the hotel casino. rum is the specialty here. So lots of that.
Serenity
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She does not know about this forum or my anonymous user on it, no.
Paid for going to the cabin? No, it's privately arranged by the people I work with, outside of that it doesn't really have anything to do with my workplace. We just do that sort of thing once in a while and it's of course completely voluntary. I go because the people I work with are genuinely fun to be with. We're already drinking, lightly today, but it's gonna get crazy tomorrow.
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Congrats!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
No, my question is….do you get paid to be a moderator here?
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A cashier that I'm talking to in a semi-regular basis wished me a "Happy Valentine's Day", and I said the same thing back to her. I cancelled all Valentine's Day themed ASMR videos/romantic pop music allowances (that happened earlier in the day) as a result of that since a meaningful interaction with a real girl invalidates any copes. Copes such as ASMRS and romantic pop music videos should only be used when there is no meaningful interactions with the opposite sex.
That being said, I did buy a bouquet of flowers for mom. Dad is unable to go out of the home on his own for the time being. I gave the flowers to dad for him to give to mom as a Happy Valentine's Day present. Mom was overjoyed with the flowers and thanked me continually throughout the day and even today for those flowers. (I guess it morphed into a Mother's Day, lol) But as they say, women are replacable, but mothers are not. You only have one mother.
That being said, I did buy a bouquet of flowers for mom. Dad is unable to go out of the home on his own for the time being. I gave the flowers to dad for him to give to mom as a Happy Valentine's Day present. Mom was overjoyed with the flowers and thanked me continually throughout the day and even today for those flowers. (I guess it morphed into a Mother's Day, lol) But as they say, women are replacable, but mothers are not. You only have one mother.
Serenity
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Nope.