Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Im thinking of getting a massage and going to the park with my dog to socialize and talk to random women on walking trails. What do you guys got planned?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What do you guys got planned Valentines Day?
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Clockwerk50
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Most likely nothing. I have to buy gifts for the main girl and send Happy Valentine’s Day messages to the rest.
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Working.
Serenity
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I'll be going to a cabin today for the weekend with a bunch of coworkers. Wife is staying home with the kids.
Because of that we moved it all to last Monday because it's the only day this week we had time together for it.
Anyways, on Monday I cooked a nice meal for us, we had a couple glasses of wine, I gave her Lego roses, we spent some time building it together and went to fvck before going to sleep.
Because of that we moved it all to last Monday because it's the only day this week we had time together for it.
Anyways, on Monday I cooked a nice meal for us, we had a couple glasses of wine, I gave her Lego roses, we spent some time building it together and went to fvck before going to sleep.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Lol does your wife knows about this site? You do get paid right?
BaronOfHair
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Took one of my acquisitions to a screening of Heart Eyes, after which we spent some time in the hot tub
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
GF & I are in the Carribean. So diner & there is a VD party at the hotel casino. rum is the specialty here. So lots of that.
Serenity
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She does not know about this forum or my anonymous user on it, no.
Paid for going to the cabin? No, it's privately arranged by the people I work with, outside of that it doesn't really have anything to do with my workplace. We just do that sort of thing once in a while and it's of course completely voluntary. I go because the people I work with are genuinely fun to be with. We're already drinking, lightly today, but it's gonna get crazy tomorrow.
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Congrats!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
No, my question is….do you get paid to be a moderator here?
corrector
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A cashier that I'm talking to in a semi-regular basis wished me a "Happy Valentine's Day", and I said the same thing back to her. I cancelled all Valentine's Day themed ASMR videos/romantic pop music allowances (that happened earlier in the day) as a result of that since a meaningful interaction with a real girl invalidates any copes. Copes such as ASMRS and romantic pop music videos should only be used when there is no meaningful interactions with the opposite sex.
That being said, I did buy a bouquet of flowers for mom. Dad is unable to go out of the home on his own for the time being. I gave the flowers to dad for him to give to mom as a Happy Valentine's Day present. Mom was overjoyed with the flowers and thanked me continually throughout the day and even today for those flowers. (I guess it morphed into a Mother's Day, lol) But as they say, women are replacable, but mothers are not. You only have one mother.
That being said, I did buy a bouquet of flowers for mom. Dad is unable to go out of the home on his own for the time being. I gave the flowers to dad for him to give to mom as a Happy Valentine's Day present. Mom was overjoyed with the flowers and thanked me continually throughout the day and even today for those flowers. (I guess it morphed into a Mother's Day, lol) But as they say, women are replacable, but mothers are not. You only have one mother.
Serenity
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Nope.