Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Im thinking of getting a massage and going to the park with my dog to socialize and talk to random women on walking trails. What do you guys got planned?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What do you guys got planned Valentines Day?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Clockwerk50
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Most likely nothing. I have to buy gifts for the main girl and send Happy Valentine’s Day messages to the rest.
Redwood
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Working.
Serenity
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I'll be going to a cabin today for the weekend with a bunch of coworkers. Wife is staying home with the kids.
Because of that we moved it all to last Monday because it's the only day this week we had time together for it.
Anyways, on Monday I cooked a nice meal for us, we had a couple glasses of wine, I gave her Lego roses, we spent some time building it together and went to fvck before going to sleep.
Because of that we moved it all to last Monday because it's the only day this week we had time together for it.
Anyways, on Monday I cooked a nice meal for us, we had a couple glasses of wine, I gave her Lego roses, we spent some time building it together and went to fvck before going to sleep.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Lol does your wife knows about this site? You do get paid right?
BaronOfHair
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Took one of my acquisitions to a screening of Heart Eyes, after which we spent some time in the hot tub
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
GF & I are in the Carribean. So diner & there is a VD party at the hotel casino. rum is the specialty here. So lots of that.
Serenity
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She does not know about this forum or my anonymous user on it, no.
Paid for going to the cabin? No, it's privately arranged by the people I work with, outside of that it doesn't really have anything to do with my workplace. We just do that sort of thing once in a while and it's of course completely voluntary. I go because the people I work with are genuinely fun to be with. We're already drinking, lightly today, but it's gonna get crazy tomorrow.
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Congrats!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
No, my question is….do you get paid to be a moderator here?
corrector
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A cashier that I'm talking to in a semi-regular basis wished me a "Happy Valentine's Day", and I said the same thing back to her. I cancelled all Valentine's Day themed ASMR videos/romantic pop music allowances (that happened earlier in the day) as a result of that since a meaningful interaction with a real girl invalidates any copes. Copes such as ASMRS and romantic pop music videos should only be used when there is no meaningful interactions with the opposite sex.
That being said, I did buy a bouquet of flowers for mom. Dad is unable to go out of the home on his own for the time being. I gave the flowers to dad for him to give to mom as a Happy Valentine's Day present. Mom was overjoyed with the flowers and thanked me continually throughout the day and even today for those flowers. (I guess it morphed into a Mother's Day, lol) But as they say, women are replacable, but mothers are not. You only have one mother.
That being said, I did buy a bouquet of flowers for mom. Dad is unable to go out of the home on his own for the time being. I gave the flowers to dad for him to give to mom as a Happy Valentine's Day present. Mom was overjoyed with the flowers and thanked me continually throughout the day and even today for those flowers. (I guess it morphed into a Mother's Day, lol) But as they say, women are replacable, but mothers are not. You only have one mother.
Serenity
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Nope.