"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you guys do to keep calm? Especially, when there are so many dynamics at work

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So, as it goes, my game is advancing, and I'm becoming more comfortable under approach, yet with so much accumulated knowledge comes the experiment part, where I get really uncomfortable trying new stuff, and its just not as smooth...

So, do I just ride it out, the initial stages or is there something that I can do to calm my self, and not become on edge...

Its like, I'm the most exciting and adventurous guy out there in terms of lifestyle, yet I always feel this uneasiness when talking to strangers, and trying to convey an interesting personality...

I'm Practicing this NLP, Donjuan, Motivational, Speed Seduction, (Meditatition, Hypnosis), and reading up, and following almost all the teaching in terms of Philosophical, and psychological concepts that are out there, its just that with the vast knowledge comes the question of conveying a unique personality, and as I expand my horizon beyond normal norms, I always find it hard to become that one guy that girls would go crazy over, as I battle my own demons in being "nice guy" vs the player...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ayeye

Mods, plaese move this to regular forum, my bad..

THX..
 
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You have overwhelmed yourself with the knowledge.

It's like cramming for a big final that you have to take in an hour. By the time you get to the final, you get fidgety, nervous, and feel like losing control. That is what is happening to you, is it not?

Take baby steps. You are not going to transform over night. It's going to take time. Just like a science experiment, trial and error are frequent. You can't run an important experiment in one single step. You have to take things slowly, one at a time. Build and strengthen the basics first.

Remember, you can't fake unique personality. With that being said, you can't develop a unique personality overnight. It's going to take a time. For now, slow things down and work on small things first. Slowly, you will see everything else fall into its place. You will be more in control of your actions, behaviors, and attitudes.
 
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I was just going to say the same thing as Bat, information overload without getting the chance to field test your knowlege. Without field testing your knowledge, its just theory.

You have to get comfortable putting your knowledge to practice in order to become natural at it.
 
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