“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

What do you guys do to keep calm? Especially, when there are so many dynamics at work

C

Canadien

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2006
Messages
173
Reaction score
1
So, as it goes, my game is advancing, and I'm becoming more comfortable under approach, yet with so much accumulated knowledge comes the experiment part, where I get really uncomfortable trying new stuff, and its just not as smooth...

So, do I just ride it out, the initial stages or is there something that I can do to calm my self, and not become on edge...

Its like, I'm the most exciting and adventurous guy out there in terms of lifestyle, yet I always feel this uneasiness when talking to strangers, and trying to convey an interesting personality...

I'm Practicing this NLP, Donjuan, Motivational, Speed Seduction, (Meditatition, Hypnosis), and reading up, and following almost all the teaching in terms of Philosophical, and psychological concepts that are out there, its just that with the vast knowledge comes the question of conveying a unique personality, and as I expand my horizon beyond normal norms, I always find it hard to become that one guy that girls would go crazy over, as I battle my own demons in being "nice guy" vs the player...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

C

Canadien

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2006
Messages
173
Reaction score
1
Ayeye

Mods, plaese move this to regular forum, my bad..

THX..
 
T

The Bat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 12, 2007
Messages
1,017
Reaction score
60
You have overwhelmed yourself with the knowledge.

It's like cramming for a big final that you have to take in an hour. By the time you get to the final, you get fidgety, nervous, and feel like losing control. That is what is happening to you, is it not?

Take baby steps. You are not going to transform over night. It's going to take time. Just like a science experiment, trial and error are frequent. You can't run an important experiment in one single step. You have to take things slowly, one at a time. Build and strengthen the basics first.

Remember, you can't fake unique personality. With that being said, you can't develop a unique personality overnight. It's going to take a time. For now, slow things down and work on small things first. Slowly, you will see everything else fall into its place. You will be more in control of your actions, behaviors, and attitudes.
 
M

MacAvoy

Banned
Joined
May 10, 2003
Messages
2,940
Reaction score
35
Location
Northern Ontario
I was just going to say the same thing as Bat, information overload without getting the chance to field test your knowlege. Without field testing your knowledge, its just theory.

You have to get comfortable putting your knowledge to practice in order to become natural at it.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top