"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what do you guys do to invite girls to your room?

garruk

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to any college guys out there... what do you guys have in your room to invite girls over during a party?


like "wanna come over and see my goldfish?" lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cliched but, "do you want to get out of here?" or, "do you want to come back to <dorm name> with me?"

You'd be surprised at how similar girls are to guys at a party when they're drunk, sometimes just being upfront works wonders.

But usually "We can come back and watch a movie, I have to show you <movie> you need to see it" etc. if you're not at a party. Girls don't want to be labeled sluts, if they hook up with someone they want to say "it just happened".


Idk, that's just what works for me, I'm sure other people have different methods
 

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Like Brighty suggested, if I'm on a date or not at a party, I always ask them to come back up to watch a movie
 

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lol. I've used some duuuumb sh!t in my day and it pretty much all works. No matter WHAT you try to make the bait and switch look like, she can read between the lines. I've used books, art, music, Dave Chappelle, movies, a "nightcap", etc.

If she's down, she'll come. If she's not, she won't. The reason is secondary.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Mum, can you help me with this economics sum?"

"Sis, get me a cup of iced water, will you?"

While in the room of course.
 

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Have something cool in your room that isn't in the rest of the dorm to show off. It can be anything. I have a lot of crafts and stuff that I've made from where I work. So I usually casually bring up my job and then they usually ask to see my portfolio.

Movies are also a good idea.

If all else fails just use a simple "Do you want to see my room?"
I've used this before and it is has never really failed me. Girls are curious. A room can tell a lot about a person.

You can also go the opposite route with this and have her over a few times without showing your room, and it will make her wonder. But chances are if you're doing this then you probably aren't getting too much action. Unless you are banging her on your couch or something.
 

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It really doesn't matter what line you use. If she is turned on, she'll. Just tell her you have a funny TV show for her to watch or a movie etc. Girls will get the hint. If they're interested, they'll come.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"come watch my goldfish do flips... he only does it for cute girls ;) "


as everyone else said, the real reason is sexual, as you AND the girl (hopefully) both know. especially within the context of a party where the alcohol is flowing freely and everyone is looking to do nothing more than be promiscuous. god i love college ;)
 

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Say "How about coming over tonight for a movie? I've got a big, and comfortable bed." depends on the tone of course
 

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i keep a guitar in the room and can play it fairly well, seems to help quite a bit :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Hey, wanna come check out my Rainbow Brite doll collection?"

Works wonders.

;)
 

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hahah alot of these responses were really funny. and i do think the movie thing is a nice idea.
 

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and if a girl comes, it basically means u two are gonna fvk? sorry im in hs right now and i wanna know what happens :p
 

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fleeordie5 said:
"Mum, can you help me with this economics sum?"

"Sis, get me a cup of iced water, will you?"

While in the room of course.
I think this would work really well in the midwest USA, going to give it a shot. :D
 

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kingxxxman said:
and if a girl comes, it basically means u two are gonna fvk? sorry im in hs right now and i wanna know what happens :p
It means she's AT LEAST down for a make out session. From there I like to go to neck and ears (heatin up the oven) as well as grab and hold her by the hair near the base of her neck. Listen to her body/moans/groans and keep going in the direction that makes her horniest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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