"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what do you guys do to invite girls to your room?

garruk

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to any college guys out there... what do you guys have in your room to invite girls over during a party?


like "wanna come over and see my goldfish?" lol.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cliched but, "do you want to get out of here?" or, "do you want to come back to <dorm name> with me?"

You'd be surprised at how similar girls are to guys at a party when they're drunk, sometimes just being upfront works wonders.

But usually "We can come back and watch a movie, I have to show you <movie> you need to see it" etc. if you're not at a party. Girls don't want to be labeled sluts, if they hook up with someone they want to say "it just happened".


Idk, that's just what works for me, I'm sure other people have different methods
 

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Like Brighty suggested, if I'm on a date or not at a party, I always ask them to come back up to watch a movie
 

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lol. I've used some duuuumb sh!t in my day and it pretty much all works. No matter WHAT you try to make the bait and switch look like, she can read between the lines. I've used books, art, music, Dave Chappelle, movies, a "nightcap", etc.

If she's down, she'll come. If she's not, she won't. The reason is secondary.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Mum, can you help me with this economics sum?"

"Sis, get me a cup of iced water, will you?"

While in the room of course.
 

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Have something cool in your room that isn't in the rest of the dorm to show off. It can be anything. I have a lot of crafts and stuff that I've made from where I work. So I usually casually bring up my job and then they usually ask to see my portfolio.

Movies are also a good idea.

If all else fails just use a simple "Do you want to see my room?"
I've used this before and it is has never really failed me. Girls are curious. A room can tell a lot about a person.

You can also go the opposite route with this and have her over a few times without showing your room, and it will make her wonder. But chances are if you're doing this then you probably aren't getting too much action. Unless you are banging her on your couch or something.
 

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It really doesn't matter what line you use. If she is turned on, she'll. Just tell her you have a funny TV show for her to watch or a movie etc. Girls will get the hint. If they're interested, they'll come.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"come watch my goldfish do flips... he only does it for cute girls ;) "


as everyone else said, the real reason is sexual, as you AND the girl (hopefully) both know. especially within the context of a party where the alcohol is flowing freely and everyone is looking to do nothing more than be promiscuous. god i love college ;)
 

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Say "How about coming over tonight for a movie? I've got a big, and comfortable bed." depends on the tone of course
 

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i keep a guitar in the room and can play it fairly well, seems to help quite a bit :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"Hey, wanna come check out my Rainbow Brite doll collection?"

Works wonders.

;)
 

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hahah alot of these responses were really funny. and i do think the movie thing is a nice idea.
 

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and if a girl comes, it basically means u two are gonna fvk? sorry im in hs right now and i wanna know what happens :p
 

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fleeordie5 said:
"Mum, can you help me with this economics sum?"

"Sis, get me a cup of iced water, will you?"

While in the room of course.
I think this would work really well in the midwest USA, going to give it a shot. :D
 

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kingxxxman said:
and if a girl comes, it basically means u two are gonna fvk? sorry im in hs right now and i wanna know what happens :p
It means she's AT LEAST down for a make out session. From there I like to go to neck and ears (heatin up the oven) as well as grab and hold her by the hair near the base of her neck. Listen to her body/moans/groans and keep going in the direction that makes her horniest.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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