Trumpetman
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 30, 2004
- Messages
- 54
- Reaction score
- 0
Usually she ends up coming over and we'll watch a movie, tv, or play cards and sometimes some ping pong. Any other fun ideas that we could do at my house that you guys have done
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What do you guys do at home w/ your gf
- Thread starter Trumpetman
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Err...have sex?
Or am I thinking too much out of the box here?
Or am I thinking too much out of the box here?
Precursor
Don Juan
wrestle
sparky0000
Banned
- Joined
- Apr 27, 2006
- Messages
- 669
- Reaction score
- 4
have her clean your place. seriously, she should want to take care of you. that is what girls were put here for.
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
Wrestle-take something from her and don't let her have it back.Then when you finally do let her get it back (Dont "let her"),try and get it back from her.Endless hours of fun.Make sure to kiss her somewhere in there too (when you catch her eye for a couple seconds).
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Docs
Banned
Is it just me, or do I find this highly sexual in nature. Oh...where's the ball (in her shirt), oh wait..there it is, it looks like it came out of your...you know.
:crackup:
MissionX
Don Juan
Haha, Maybe you should have sex with her lol
Payne
Payne
PleasureKing
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 14, 2006
- Messages
- 175
- Reaction score
- 1
seriouslyMissionX said:
sparky0000
Banned
- Joined
- Apr 27, 2006
- Messages
- 669
- Reaction score
- 4
Themanthatcan said:
that is just plain creepy :nervous: any victims?
Mandiblard
Senior Don Juan
My girlfriend likes playing with my Wii
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
sparky0000 said:
Ha the play flirting/wrestling/kissing thing isn't creepy. The "endless hours of fun" part worries me though...
But when shes over, movies, games (i have airhockey), nookie on the bed/couch/futon/whatever...
Ooh. Give the broad a massage. Fo sho.
MrConfidence
Banned
- Joined
- Aug 22, 2006
- Messages
- 346
- Reaction score
- 1
Yeah, girls who like games are pretty cool. Contrary to popular belief, not only geeky girls are into that thing.Mandiblard said:
Youve got a Wii? Then you must have Zelda:twilight princess then right? A wicked game, my gf loves it 
Trumpetman, try something interesting and mysterious...sorry cant think of anything right now but she'll love you for it.
Trumpetman, try something interesting and mysterious...sorry cant think of anything right now but she'll love you for it.
MissionX
Don Juan
My Gal plays the xbox and ps2, although she doesn't own them, she plays them at my house, and shes always beating me lol. Haha We watch movies in my room, but never actually watch them..... errrr lol
Payne
Payne
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 7, 2006
- Messages
- 835
- Reaction score
- 7
man you get beaen by your gf in comp games? thats kinda.. sad
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MissionX
Don Juan
Nah not really, I don't play them much, and well shes good :| I was playing Halo 2 the other day and I must have died 3 times. she didn't die at all. I think it was Heoric mode or something like that. I know one game I have not been beaten at yea.
Need for Speed: Most Wanted. **** yea, not tell me thats not a good game!
Need for Speed: Most Wanted. **** yea, not tell me thats not a good game!
Docs
Banned
I pwn Soldat, lol.
That's it for me.
OHHH, man, I got my INet line in for good, so I might just host a server or something?
That's it for me.
OHHH, man, I got my INet line in for good, so I might just host a server or something?
watch horror movies,and keep scaring her:yes:Trumpetman said:
as for other things to do,whatever form of other entertainment you have,and if all fails and your both bored,go out bowling or something.
I've also found inviting a mate and his girlfriend round as well a good thing to do every once in a while
MissionX
Don Juan
I'm so for soldat man. Haha!
Payne
Payne
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.