Trumpetman
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Usually she ends up coming over and we'll watch a movie, tv, or play cards and sometimes some ping pong. Any other fun ideas that we could do at my house that you guys have done
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What do you guys do at home w/ your gf
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Err...have sex?
Or am I thinking too much out of the box here?
Or am I thinking too much out of the box here?
Precursor
Don Juan
wrestle
sparky0000
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have her clean your place. seriously, she should want to take care of you. that is what girls were put here for.
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
Wrestle-take something from her and don't let her have it back.Then when you finally do let her get it back (Dont "let her"),try and get it back from her.Endless hours of fun.Make sure to kiss her somewhere in there too (when you catch her eye for a couple seconds).
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Docs
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Is it just me, or do I find this highly sexual in nature. Oh...where's the ball (in her shirt), oh wait..there it is, it looks like it came out of your...you know.
:crackup:
MissionX
Don Juan
Haha, Maybe you should have sex with her lol
Payne
Payne
PleasureKing
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seriouslyMissionX said:
sparky0000
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Themanthatcan said:
that is just plain creepy :nervous: any victims?
Mandiblard
Senior Don Juan
My girlfriend likes playing with my Wii
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
sparky0000 said:
Ha the play flirting/wrestling/kissing thing isn't creepy. The "endless hours of fun" part worries me though...
But when shes over, movies, games (i have airhockey), nookie on the bed/couch/futon/whatever...
Ooh. Give the broad a massage. Fo sho.
MrConfidence
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Yeah, girls who like games are pretty cool. Contrary to popular belief, not only geeky girls are into that thing.Mandiblard said:
Youve got a Wii? Then you must have Zelda:twilight princess then right? A wicked game, my gf loves it 
Trumpetman, try something interesting and mysterious...sorry cant think of anything right now but she'll love you for it.
Trumpetman, try something interesting and mysterious...sorry cant think of anything right now but she'll love you for it.
MissionX
Don Juan
My Gal plays the xbox and ps2, although she doesn't own them, she plays them at my house, and shes always beating me lol. Haha We watch movies in my room, but never actually watch them..... errrr lol
Payne
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GaryUranga
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man you get beaen by your gf in comp games? thats kinda.. sad
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MissionX
Don Juan
Nah not really, I don't play them much, and well shes good :| I was playing Halo 2 the other day and I must have died 3 times. she didn't die at all. I think it was Heoric mode or something like that. I know one game I have not been beaten at yea.
Need for Speed: Most Wanted. **** yea, not tell me thats not a good game!
Need for Speed: Most Wanted. **** yea, not tell me thats not a good game!
Docs
Banned
I pwn Soldat, lol.
That's it for me.
OHHH, man, I got my INet line in for good, so I might just host a server or something?
That's it for me.
OHHH, man, I got my INet line in for good, so I might just host a server or something?
watch horror movies,and keep scaring her:yes:Trumpetman said:
as for other things to do,whatever form of other entertainment you have,and if all fails and your both bored,go out bowling or something.
I've also found inviting a mate and his girlfriend round as well a good thing to do every once in a while
MissionX
Don Juan
I'm so for soldat man. Haha!
Payne
Payne
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.