"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do you guys do at home w/ your gf

Trumpetman

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Usually she ends up coming over and we'll watch a movie, tv, or play cards and sometimes some ping pong. Any other fun ideas that we could do at my house that you guys have done
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aftershock

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Err...have sex?

Or am I thinking too much out of the box here?
 

sparky0000

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have her clean your place. seriously, she should want to take care of you. that is what girls were put here for.
 

Themanthatcan

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Wrestle-take something from her and don't let her have it back.Then when you finally do let her get it back (Dont "let her"),try and get it back from her.Endless hours of fun.Make sure to kiss her somewhere in there too (when you catch her eye for a couple seconds).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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and sometimes some ping pong.
Is it just me, or do I find this highly sexual in nature. Oh...where's the ball (in her shirt), oh wait..there it is, it looks like it came out of your...you know.

:crackup:
 

MissionX

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Haha, Maybe you should have sex with her lol

Payne
 

sparky0000

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Themanthatcan said:
Wrestle-take something from her and don't let her have it back.Then when you finally do let her get it back (Dont "let her"),try and get it back from her.Endless hours of fun.Make sure to kiss her somewhere in there too (when you catch her eye for a couple seconds).

that is just plain creepy :nervous: any victims?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skilla_Staz

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sparky0000 said:
that is just plain creepy :nervous: any victims?

Ha the play flirting/wrestling/kissing thing isn't creepy. The "endless hours of fun" part worries me though...


But when shes over, movies, games (i have airhockey), nookie on the bed/couch/futon/whatever...


Ooh. Give the broad a massage. Fo sho.
 

MrConfidence

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My girlfriend likes playing with my Wii
Yeah, girls who like games are pretty cool. Contrary to popular belief, not only geeky girls are into that thing.
 

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Youve got a Wii? Then you must have Zelda:twilight princess then right? A wicked game, my gf loves it :up:

Trumpetman, try something interesting and mysterious...sorry cant think of anything right now but she'll love you for it.
 

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My Gal plays the xbox and ps2, although she doesn't own them, she plays them at my house, and shes always beating me lol. Haha We watch movies in my room, but never actually watch them..... errrr lol

Payne
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nah not really, I don't play them much, and well shes good :| I was playing Halo 2 the other day and I must have died 3 times. she didn't die at all. I think it was Heoric mode or something like that. I know one game I have not been beaten at yea.

Need for Speed: Most Wanted. **** yea, not tell me thats not a good game!
 

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Mandiblard said:
My girlfriend likes playing with my Wii
wow so there is an upside to them :eek:
 

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I pwn Soldat, lol.

That's it for me.

OHHH, man, I got my INet line in for good, so I might just host a server or something?
 

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Trumpetman said:
Usually she ends up coming over and we'll watch a movie, tv, or play cards and sometimes some ping pong. Any other fun ideas that we could do at my house that you guys have done
watch horror movies,and keep scaring her:yes:

as for other things to do,whatever form of other entertainment you have,and if all fails and your both bored,go out bowling or something.
I've also found inviting a mate and his girlfriend round as well a good thing to do every once in a while:)
 

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I'm so for soldat man. Haha!

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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