What do you do when a woman wants to change you?

[jhonny9546]

I think it's something we've all been through, guys.
What do you do when a woman wants to change you?

a) You accept her reasoning, evaluate whether it can really be useful to you, and respond honestly: if it's useful to you, you'll change for the better, but if it's not aligned with your values, then it'll be a firm no from you (for example, she tells you you don't spend much time together, or that you're home too late at night, due to your work commitments and hobbies).

b) You don't accept her reasoning, you refuse outright (like when she suggests couples therapy).

 

[The Duke]

Leave.

I am who I am, take it or leave it.

 

[BaronOfHair]

@jhonny9546 "What do you do when a woman wants to change you?"

-Put on a diaper

-Grant her her wish

This generally rids her of such desires

 

[zekko]

a) You accept her reasoning, evaluate whether it can really be useful to you, and respond honestly: if it's useful to you, you'll change for the better, but if it's not aligned with your values, then it'll be a firm no from you (for example, she tells you you don't spend much time together, or that you're home too late at night, due to your work commitments and hobbies).

This sounds fairly reasonable, but I may not want to change even if her suggestion is for the better. It may not be something I want to tackle at this particular time, for whatever reason. You have to be ready to change before any actual change can take place, and I might not have reached that point yet.

 

[plumber]

leave or stay. don't change.

attraction 101, she is attracted to you just as you are. the issue will be if you can manage her emotional attempts of control. if not leave, if yes then leave or stay.

after she fixes you your done.

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

@jhonny9546 "What do you do when a woman wants to change you?"

-Put on a diaper

-Grant her her wish

This generally rids her of such desires

^^ That could definitely backfire if there is a k1nk dynamic in the relationship! lol

Generally, I would also leave. If it's a change I've discussed wanting to make and she expedites or facilitates me being to effectively make the change I was wanting to, cool. If it's her conjuring up a "I really wish you'd" or "I can't be with ____ who ____" then eh--- Bye!

 

[MatureDJ]

I wouldn't mind the kinkiness in her changing my clothes (I mean her physically taking off and putting on different clothes).

 

[MatureDJ]

@jhonny9546 "What do you do when a woman wants to change you?"

-Put on a diaper

-Grant her her wish

This generally rids her of such desires

I don't think I'd take a crap in a diaper just because it turns her on.

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

I don't think I'd take a crap in a diaper just because it turns her on.

That's at least 2 then. haha

 

[jhonny9546]

after she fixes you your done.

Actually saw some friends change for the better. Their relationship its in a better state.
Their women actually asked them to change something that was off.
Of course they did change on things they believed they were reasonable to do.. like one friend was adviced to go to the psich to help with managing his anger.

 

[plumber]

Actually saw some friends change for the better. Their relationship its in a better state.
Their women actually asked them to change something that was off.
Of course they did change on things they believed they were reasonable to do.. like one friend was adviced to go to the psich to help with managing his anger.

that sounds good. keep track of them for time. after fixed, and not afraid of anger in this case. as with anything there are exception cases.