IHeartTrance
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What do you do if she doesn't text you back?
- Thread starter IHeartTrance
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sylvester the cat
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this:
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in the meantime you should be spinning plates so that things like this don't bother you. don't put all your eggs in one basket.
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in the meantime you should be spinning plates so that things like this don't bother you. don't put all your eggs in one basket.
What he said
If she doesn't text you back shouldn't bother you, cos one of the other girls that you are texting at the same time will.....
Don't go from girl to girl to girl, have multiples on the go at one time so that a none reply doesn't phase you
If she doesn't text you back shouldn't bother you, cos one of the other girls that you are texting at the same time will.....
Don't go from girl to girl to girl, have multiples on the go at one time so that a none reply doesn't phase you
Even if she texts back the next day, she should now be low priority compared to the other girls you're also texting.hudpes said:
You might eventually text her back, or you might not. Either way, she doesn't jump to the too of the pile just for replying.....
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
Live my life. Practice basketball? Go out? Text other girls???
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
After 24 hrs you delete that twӓt from your phone...and your life.
JimmyBizzle
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Sylvester, good stuff haha