IHeartTrance
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What do you do if she doesn't text you back?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
sylvester the cat
Master Don Juan
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this:
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in the meantime you should be spinning plates so that things like this don't bother you. don't put all your eggs in one basket.
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in the meantime you should be spinning plates so that things like this don't bother you. don't put all your eggs in one basket.
What he said
If she doesn't text you back shouldn't bother you, cos one of the other girls that you are texting at the same time will.....
Don't go from girl to girl to girl, have multiples on the go at one time so that a none reply doesn't phase you
If she doesn't text you back shouldn't bother you, cos one of the other girls that you are texting at the same time will.....
Don't go from girl to girl to girl, have multiples on the go at one time so that a none reply doesn't phase you
Even if she texts back the next day, she should now be low priority compared to the other girls you're also texting.hudpes said:
You might eventually text her back, or you might not. Either way, she doesn't jump to the too of the pile just for replying.....
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
Live my life. Practice basketball? Go out? Text other girls???
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
After 24 hrs you delete that twӓt from your phone...and your life.
JimmyBizzle
Don Juan
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Sylvester, good stuff haha