IHeartTrance
Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What do you do if she doesn't text you back?
- Thread starter IHeartTrance
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sylvester the cat
Master Don Juan
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this:
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in the meantime you should be spinning plates so that things like this don't bother you. don't put all your eggs in one basket.
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in the meantime you should be spinning plates so that things like this don't bother you. don't put all your eggs in one basket.
What he said
If she doesn't text you back shouldn't bother you, cos one of the other girls that you are texting at the same time will.....
Don't go from girl to girl to girl, have multiples on the go at one time so that a none reply doesn't phase you
If she doesn't text you back shouldn't bother you, cos one of the other girls that you are texting at the same time will.....
Don't go from girl to girl to girl, have multiples on the go at one time so that a none reply doesn't phase you
Even if she texts back the next day, she should now be low priority compared to the other girls you're also texting.hudpes said:
You might eventually text her back, or you might not. Either way, she doesn't jump to the too of the pile just for replying.....
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
Live my life. Practice basketball? Go out? Text other girls???
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
After 24 hrs you delete that twӓt from your phone...and your life.
JimmyBizzle
Don Juan
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Sylvester, good stuff haha