IHeartTrance
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What do you do if she doesn't text you back?
- Thread starter IHeartTrance
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sylvester the cat
Master Don Juan
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this:
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in the meantime you should be spinning plates so that things like this don't bother you. don't put all your eggs in one basket.
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in the meantime you should be spinning plates so that things like this don't bother you. don't put all your eggs in one basket.
What he said
If she doesn't text you back shouldn't bother you, cos one of the other girls that you are texting at the same time will.....
Don't go from girl to girl to girl, have multiples on the go at one time so that a none reply doesn't phase you
If she doesn't text you back shouldn't bother you, cos one of the other girls that you are texting at the same time will.....
Don't go from girl to girl to girl, have multiples on the go at one time so that a none reply doesn't phase you
Even if she texts back the next day, she should now be low priority compared to the other girls you're also texting.hudpes said:
You might eventually text her back, or you might not. Either way, she doesn't jump to the too of the pile just for replying.....
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
Live my life. Practice basketball? Go out? Text other girls???
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
After 24 hrs you delete that twӓt from your phone...and your life.
JimmyBizzle
Don Juan
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Sylvester, good stuff haha