"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

What do you do if date reschedules?

BillyPilgrim

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 9, 2021
Messages
6,052
Reaction score
4,862
OP contacted me through PM, but I thought one detail he shared was relevant:

The date he had planned with the girl is a huge holiday (with a lot of cool sh1t for young people, apparently) in Holland, where he lives, called King's Day.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

EyeBRollin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2015
Messages
10,537
Reaction score
8,538
Age
37
The date he had planned with the girl is a huge holiday (with a lot of cool sh1t for young people, apparently) in Holland, where he lives, called King's Day.
Mistake. Don’t plan a date on or near holidays.

Men, shut down dating completely from November 15-January 2. Stick with only a current rotation of plates during that time. Don’t bother starting anything new.
 

anour

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2022
Messages
476
Reaction score
63
Mistake. Don’t plan a date on or near holidays.

Men, shut down dating completely from November 15-January 2. Stick with only a current rotation of plates during that time. Don’t bother starting anything new.
Noted thank you for that!
 
Joined
Nov 26, 2022
Messages
102
Reaction score
98
If she doesn’t offer another date or day herself then Go no contact, and then forget about her. You aren’t her priority. No contact will eventually make her realize she will lose you.
 
Top