"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What do you do if date reschedules?

BillyPilgrim

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OP contacted me through PM, but I thought one detail he shared was relevant:

The date he had planned with the girl is a huge holiday (with a lot of cool sh1t for young people, apparently) in Holland, where he lives, called King's Day.
 

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EyeBRollin

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The date he had planned with the girl is a huge holiday (with a lot of cool sh1t for young people, apparently) in Holland, where he lives, called King's Day.
Mistake. Don’t plan a date on or near holidays.

Men, shut down dating completely from November 15-January 2. Stick with only a current rotation of plates during that time. Don’t bother starting anything new.
 

anour

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Mistake. Don’t plan a date on or near holidays.

Men, shut down dating completely from November 15-January 2. Stick with only a current rotation of plates during that time. Don’t bother starting anything new.
Noted thank you for that!
 
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If she doesn’t offer another date or day herself then Go no contact, and then forget about her. You aren’t her priority. No contact will eventually make her realize she will lose you.
 
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