Dhoulmagus
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What do yall think about this chivalry article
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
El Payaso
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More brainwashing to the feeble minded men out there by a typical white knight author. Just click on the author's name at the top of the page and look at his list of articles:
- The Simple Way To Make Her Happier
- Every Day Should Be Valentine’s Day
- The False Myth About Women
- 5 Ways To Empower Your Woman
- A Letter To The Nice Guys
SOURCE: http://jamesmsama.wordpress.com/author/jamesmsama/
- The Simple Way To Make Her Happier
- Every Day Should Be Valentine’s Day
- The False Myth About Women
- 5 Ways To Empower Your Woman
- A Letter To The Nice Guys
SOURCE: http://jamesmsama.wordpress.com/author/jamesmsama/
Bokanovsky
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I'd be perfectly willing to do all of those 8 things for a girl provided that she:
1. Cooks for me
2. Cleans my condo
3. Irons my shirts
4. Doesn't try to express an opinion on politics and other manly subjects
5. Defers to me on all important decisions
6. Always wears a skirt and high heels when we go out (no jeans and flats/running shoes)
7. Doesn't whine, b!tch, nag or complain
8. Knows her place
It's funny how all these women whine about chivalry being dead, yet you won't hear a peep from them about the good housewife being dead too. One goes with the other. If you want to be a modern "empowered" woman, pull the fvcking chair out yourself.
1. Cooks for me
2. Cleans my condo
3. Irons my shirts
4. Doesn't try to express an opinion on politics and other manly subjects
5. Defers to me on all important decisions
6. Always wears a skirt and high heels when we go out (no jeans and flats/running shoes)
7. Doesn't whine, b!tch, nag or complain
8. Knows her place
It's funny how all these women whine about chivalry being dead, yet you won't hear a peep from them about the good housewife being dead too. One goes with the other. If you want to be a modern "empowered" woman, pull the fvcking chair out yourself.
Atom Smasher
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I hate to hijack this thread, but does anyone know how to clean vomit off a monitor? I just blew my cookies when I read this linked article.
I will always open a door for my girl, and will walk on the street side of the sidewalk, but that's it. Those gestures are balanced by the strong hand I always hold in my relationships in all other areas.
I regard them as little "treats" that convey that I have some class, make her feel valued, but without over-doing it. They offset the very firm boundary setting that I always do in my relationships.
I will always open a door for my girl, and will walk on the street side of the sidewalk, but that's it. Those gestures are balanced by the strong hand I always hold in my relationships in all other areas.
I regard them as little "treats" that convey that I have some class, make her feel valued, but without over-doing it. They offset the very firm boundary setting that I always do in my relationships.
Lotus Effect
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Atom Smasher said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
