"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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El Payaso

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More brainwashing to the feeble minded men out there by a typical white knight author. Just click on the author's name at the top of the page and look at his list of articles:

- The Simple Way To Make Her Happier

- Every Day Should Be Valentine’s Day

- The False Myth About Women

- 5 Ways To Empower Your Woman

- A Letter To The Nice Guys

SOURCE: http://jamesmsama.wordpress.com/author/jamesmsama/
 

Bokanovsky

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I'd be perfectly willing to do all of those 8 things for a girl provided that she:

1. Cooks for me
2. Cleans my condo
3. Irons my shirts
4. Doesn't try to express an opinion on politics and other manly subjects
5. Defers to me on all important decisions
6. Always wears a skirt and high heels when we go out (no jeans and flats/running shoes)
7. Doesn't whine, b!tch, nag or complain
8. Knows her place

It's funny how all these women whine about chivalry being dead, yet you won't hear a peep from them about the good housewife being dead too. One goes with the other. If you want to be a modern "empowered" woman, pull the fvcking chair out yourself.
 

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I hate to hijack this thread, but does anyone know how to clean vomit off a monitor? I just blew my cookies when I read this linked article.

I will always open a door for my girl, and will walk on the street side of the sidewalk, but that's it. Those gestures are balanced by the strong hand I always hold in my relationships in all other areas.

I regard them as little "treats" that convey that I have some class, make her feel valued, but without over-doing it. They offset the very firm boundary setting that I always do in my relationships.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
I hate to hijack this thread, but does anyone know how to clean vomit off a monitor? I just blew my cookies when I read this linked article.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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