Dhoulmagus
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What do yall think about this chivalry article
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
El Payaso
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More brainwashing to the feeble minded men out there by a typical white knight author. Just click on the author's name at the top of the page and look at his list of articles:
- The Simple Way To Make Her Happier
- Every Day Should Be Valentine’s Day
- The False Myth About Women
- 5 Ways To Empower Your Woman
- A Letter To The Nice Guys
SOURCE: http://jamesmsama.wordpress.com/author/jamesmsama/
- The Simple Way To Make Her Happier
- Every Day Should Be Valentine’s Day
- The False Myth About Women
- 5 Ways To Empower Your Woman
- A Letter To The Nice Guys
SOURCE: http://jamesmsama.wordpress.com/author/jamesmsama/
Bokanovsky
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I'd be perfectly willing to do all of those 8 things for a girl provided that she:
1. Cooks for me
2. Cleans my condo
3. Irons my shirts
4. Doesn't try to express an opinion on politics and other manly subjects
5. Defers to me on all important decisions
6. Always wears a skirt and high heels when we go out (no jeans and flats/running shoes)
7. Doesn't whine, b!tch, nag or complain
8. Knows her place
It's funny how all these women whine about chivalry being dead, yet you won't hear a peep from them about the good housewife being dead too. One goes with the other. If you want to be a modern "empowered" woman, pull the fvcking chair out yourself.
1. Cooks for me
2. Cleans my condo
3. Irons my shirts
4. Doesn't try to express an opinion on politics and other manly subjects
5. Defers to me on all important decisions
6. Always wears a skirt and high heels when we go out (no jeans and flats/running shoes)
7. Doesn't whine, b!tch, nag or complain
8. Knows her place
It's funny how all these women whine about chivalry being dead, yet you won't hear a peep from them about the good housewife being dead too. One goes with the other. If you want to be a modern "empowered" woman, pull the fvcking chair out yourself.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I hate to hijack this thread, but does anyone know how to clean vomit off a monitor? I just blew my cookies when I read this linked article.
I will always open a door for my girl, and will walk on the street side of the sidewalk, but that's it. Those gestures are balanced by the strong hand I always hold in my relationships in all other areas.
I regard them as little "treats" that convey that I have some class, make her feel valued, but without over-doing it. They offset the very firm boundary setting that I always do in my relationships.
I will always open a door for my girl, and will walk on the street side of the sidewalk, but that's it. Those gestures are balanced by the strong hand I always hold in my relationships in all other areas.
I regard them as little "treats" that convey that I have some class, make her feel valued, but without over-doing it. They offset the very firm boundary setting that I always do in my relationships.
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Atom Smasher said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
