Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LOL. Thanks for the laugh man. I literally spit my drink out just reading that.nivapimpru said:Personally I left US because I think it's heading towards revolution by November this year. Think Obama assassination, and Americans in FEMA camps. But based on economy, 28% employments if not more, unofficial numbers. I think not such a good idea.
Tell me what other skill you have, I tell you what you can make in Russia.
BigJimbo said:Gotta love this forum. We have billionaires via penny stocks, international elites, and countless world travelers. I am impressed.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Where are you from? You sure don't put words together like a native speaker does. But hey, at least you don't claim to know international elites. I will give that to you.Powerlifter said:Yeah but BigJimbo you forgot yourself the biggest anti American poster here.
Fat lard women love you so much because when they are with you they appear skinny model types and they weigh lilke 400lbs.
America the greatest.
Powerlifter