You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LOL. Thanks for the laugh man. I literally spit my drink out just reading that.nivapimpru said:Personally I left US because I think it's heading towards revolution by November this year. Think Obama assassination, and Americans in FEMA camps. But based on economy, 28% employments if not more, unofficial numbers. I think not such a good idea.
Tell me what other skill you have, I tell you what you can make in Russia.
BigJimbo said:Gotta love this forum. We have billionaires via penny stocks, international elites, and countless world travelers. I am impressed.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Where are you from? You sure don't put words together like a native speaker does. But hey, at least you don't claim to know international elites. I will give that to you.Powerlifter said:Yeah but BigJimbo you forgot yourself the biggest anti American poster here.
Fat lard women love you so much because when they are with you they appear skinny model types and they weigh lilke 400lbs.
America the greatest.
Powerlifter