You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LOL. Thanks for the laugh man. I literally spit my drink out just reading that.nivapimpru said:Personally I left US because I think it's heading towards revolution by November this year. Think Obama assassination, and Americans in FEMA camps. But based on economy, 28% employments if not more, unofficial numbers. I think not such a good idea.
Tell me what other skill you have, I tell you what you can make in Russia.
BigJimbo said:Gotta love this forum. We have billionaires via penny stocks, international elites, and countless world travelers. I am impressed.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Where are you from? You sure don't put words together like a native speaker does. But hey, at least you don't claim to know international elites. I will give that to you.Powerlifter said:Yeah but BigJimbo you forgot yourself the biggest anti American poster here.
Fat lard women love you so much because when they are with you they appear skinny model types and they weigh lilke 400lbs.
America the greatest.
Powerlifter