"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what do u guys make of this?

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djinhell

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This is about a girl who I very briefly dated a couple years back and I know she was keen for me, but I didn't go for it, cos I was after another girl lol.

A couple months ago (out of the blue) I txt'd her asking her out (even though i knew she had a bf) she declined, saying she had a bf.

Anyway a couple of days ago, I noticed her facebook status had changed from "in a relationship" to "single"....and today she sent me a msg on facebook saying "Hey, u ok what u been up 2? x" (she hasn't said anything to me on there before)

What do you guys make of this...does she want me to ask her out again...or am I reading too much into this?

your thoughts appreciated

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gangster Of Love

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She wants attention she no longer is getting. Not a bad thing. She could be hinting to you that she is now available. Tell her to call you and then let her talk. As soon as she says she's single again, tell her "Ok, so when are you taking me out?".
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
She wants attention she no longer is getting. Not a bad thing. She could be hinting to you that she is now available. Tell her to call you and then let her talk. As soon as she says she's single again, tell her "Ok, so when are you taking me out?".
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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