"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what do u guys make of this?

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djinhell

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This is about a girl who I very briefly dated a couple years back and I know she was keen for me, but I didn't go for it, cos I was after another girl lol.

A couple months ago (out of the blue) I txt'd her asking her out (even though i knew she had a bf) she declined, saying she had a bf.

Anyway a couple of days ago, I noticed her facebook status had changed from "in a relationship" to "single"....and today she sent me a msg on facebook saying "Hey, u ok what u been up 2? x" (she hasn't said anything to me on there before)

What do you guys make of this...does she want me to ask her out again...or am I reading too much into this?

your thoughts appreciated

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She wants attention she no longer is getting. Not a bad thing. She could be hinting to you that she is now available. Tell her to call you and then let her talk. As soon as she says she's single again, tell her "Ok, so when are you taking me out?".
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
She wants attention she no longer is getting. Not a bad thing. She could be hinting to you that she is now available. Tell her to call you and then let her talk. As soon as she says she's single again, tell her "Ok, so when are you taking me out?".
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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