"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what do u guys make of this?

djinhell

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This is about a girl who I very briefly dated a couple years back and I know she was keen for me, but I didn't go for it, cos I was after another girl lol.

A couple months ago (out of the blue) I txt'd her asking her out (even though i knew she had a bf) she declined, saying she had a bf.

Anyway a couple of days ago, I noticed her facebook status had changed from "in a relationship" to "single"....and today she sent me a msg on facebook saying "Hey, u ok what u been up 2? x" (she hasn't said anything to me on there before)

What do you guys make of this...does she want me to ask her out again...or am I reading too much into this?

your thoughts appreciated

cheers guys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gangster Of Love

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She wants attention she no longer is getting. Not a bad thing. She could be hinting to you that she is now available. Tell her to call you and then let her talk. As soon as she says she's single again, tell her "Ok, so when are you taking me out?".
 

DonGorgon

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Gangster Of Love said:
She wants attention she no longer is getting. Not a bad thing. She could be hinting to you that she is now available. Tell her to call you and then let her talk. As soon as she says she's single again, tell her "Ok, so when are you taking me out?".
perfect
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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