"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what do u guys make of this?

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This is about a girl who I very briefly dated a couple years back and I know she was keen for me, but I didn't go for it, cos I was after another girl lol.

A couple months ago (out of the blue) I txt'd her asking her out (even though i knew she had a bf) she declined, saying she had a bf.

Anyway a couple of days ago, I noticed her facebook status had changed from "in a relationship" to "single"....and today she sent me a msg on facebook saying "Hey, u ok what u been up 2? x" (she hasn't said anything to me on there before)

What do you guys make of this...does she want me to ask her out again...or am I reading too much into this?

your thoughts appreciated

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She wants attention she no longer is getting. Not a bad thing. She could be hinting to you that she is now available. Tell her to call you and then let her talk. As soon as she says she's single again, tell her "Ok, so when are you taking me out?".
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
She wants attention she no longer is getting. Not a bad thing. She could be hinting to you that she is now available. Tell her to call you and then let her talk. As soon as she says she's single again, tell her "Ok, so when are you taking me out?".
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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