"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what do u guys make of this?

djinhell

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This is about a girl who I very briefly dated a couple years back and I know she was keen for me, but I didn't go for it, cos I was after another girl lol.

A couple months ago (out of the blue) I txt'd her asking her out (even though i knew she had a bf) she declined, saying she had a bf.

Anyway a couple of days ago, I noticed her facebook status had changed from "in a relationship" to "single"....and today she sent me a msg on facebook saying "Hey, u ok what u been up 2? x" (she hasn't said anything to me on there before)

What do you guys make of this...does she want me to ask her out again...or am I reading too much into this?

your thoughts appreciated

cheers guys
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gangster Of Love

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She wants attention she no longer is getting. Not a bad thing. She could be hinting to you that she is now available. Tell her to call you and then let her talk. As soon as she says she's single again, tell her "Ok, so when are you taking me out?".
 

DonGorgon

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Gangster Of Love said:
She wants attention she no longer is getting. Not a bad thing. She could be hinting to you that she is now available. Tell her to call you and then let her talk. As soon as she says she's single again, tell her "Ok, so when are you taking me out?".
perfect
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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