"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do I attract!

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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stinkyape

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johncrawford said:
What do you mean sorry ?
It doesn't link to your photo for other people. Most likely there's some saved data on your computer (called a cookie) that makes that link take you to your photos... But it won't take people without that information on their computer to your photos.
 

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So pimp its scary

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Cause you look like you spend more time scrapping at the clubs than meeting chicks... maybe it's just the picture, but someone looks me like that I'll get my fist ready.

Seriously tho, it's not about the picture, it's about you as a person, how you act, what you say to a girl, the personality that you convey to others... that's what makes the difference in girls that you attract...

Maybe you go for thos that give outright IOI's, if a girl looks hot and she's not getting hit on enough, it COULD be a red flag (I wouldn't go so far as to treat it as a red flag, but if other things start popping up...), even tho in experience, a single girl typically goes fishing in a bar waiting for a guy to chat her up, and are most often normal... normal as far as women go.
 

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haha you're fine...go sarge and see what you can pull. You're not pretty like what I see out here in SoCal but you'll be fine most places.
 

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headcase

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=AURQSQE-QRX

This girl that I know called becky is one of these.
She is the manager of a clothes shop, downstairs in the mall.
I got her name a while ago She came in for a coffee.
I got the feeling she was not into me, after several things I tryed didn't work!

So I stopped making eye contact.Looked away when she was heading toward me.Started to talk about another women that I liked etc.

Now today when I saw her she "waved" at me!
What the **** is going on with this headcase.

I walked past her shop as well,and I could see her watching me!

Is she an attention hore,or does she like me now?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rex Man

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Out of curiousity SuperChilies, which race do you think has it the best when it comes to females, if any?
 
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