johncrawford
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What do I attract!
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
johncrawford
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What do you mean sorry ?Yapper said:that link isn't what you think.
It doesn't link to your photo for other people. Most likely there's some saved data on your computer (called a cookie) that makes that link take you to your photos... But it won't take people without that information on their computer to your photos.johncrawford said:What do you mean sorry ?
yup, it's a misleading link.johncrawford said:
but you attract wat ever female you want to attract. people who are similar tend to attract each other.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=AURQSQE-QRXstinkyape said:It doesn't link to your photo for other people. Most likely there's some saved data on your computer (called a cookie) that makes that link take you to your photos... But it won't take people without that information on their computer to your photos.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Cause you look like you spend more time scrapping at the clubs than meeting chicks... maybe it's just the picture, but someone looks me like that I'll get my fist ready.
Seriously tho, it's not about the picture, it's about you as a person, how you act, what you say to a girl, the personality that you convey to others... that's what makes the difference in girls that you attract...
Maybe you go for thos that give outright IOI's, if a girl looks hot and she's not getting hit on enough, it COULD be a red flag (I wouldn't go so far as to treat it as a red flag, but if other things start popping up...), even tho in experience, a single girl typically goes fishing in a bar waiting for a guy to chat her up, and are most often normal... normal as far as women go.
Seriously tho, it's not about the picture, it's about you as a person, how you act, what you say to a girl, the personality that you convey to others... that's what makes the difference in girls that you attract...
Maybe you go for thos that give outright IOI's, if a girl looks hot and she's not getting hit on enough, it COULD be a red flag (I wouldn't go so far as to treat it as a red flag, but if other things start popping up...), even tho in experience, a single girl typically goes fishing in a bar waiting for a guy to chat her up, and are most often normal... normal as far as women go.
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johncrawford said:
your white, you've got good hair....ass should be handed to you on a platter ;
samueladams
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haha you're fine...go sarge and see what you can pull. You're not pretty like what I see out here in SoCal but you'll be fine most places.
johncrawford
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headcase
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=AURQSQE-QRX
This girl that I know called becky is one of these.
She is the manager of a clothes shop, downstairs in the mall.
I got her name a while ago She came in for a coffee.
I got the feeling she was not into me, after several things I tryed didn't work!
So I stopped making eye contact.Looked away when she was heading toward me.Started to talk about another women that I liked etc.
Now today when I saw her she "waved" at me!
What the **** is going on with this headcase.
I walked past her shop as well,and I could see her watching me!
Is she an attention hore,or does she like me now?
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=AURQSQE-QRX
This girl that I know called becky is one of these.
She is the manager of a clothes shop, downstairs in the mall.
I got her name a while ago She came in for a coffee.
I got the feeling she was not into me, after several things I tryed didn't work!
So I stopped making eye contact.Looked away when she was heading toward me.Started to talk about another women that I liked etc.
Now today when I saw her she "waved" at me!
What the **** is going on with this headcase.
I walked past her shop as well,and I could see her watching me!
Is she an attention hore,or does she like me now?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maybe because you don't smile?Why do I attract headcases?
johncrawford
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She does not smile herself.(much)Obsidian said:Maybe because you don't smile?
But when she does jesus christ:woo: