johncrawford
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What do I attract!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
johncrawford
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What do you mean sorry ?Yapper said:that link isn't what you think.
It doesn't link to your photo for other people. Most likely there's some saved data on your computer (called a cookie) that makes that link take you to your photos... But it won't take people without that information on their computer to your photos.johncrawford said:What do you mean sorry ?
yup, it's a misleading link.johncrawford said:
but you attract wat ever female you want to attract. people who are similar tend to attract each other.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
johncrawford
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http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=AURQSQE-QRXstinkyape said:It doesn't link to your photo for other people. Most likely there's some saved data on your computer (called a cookie) that makes that link take you to your photos... But it won't take people without that information on their computer to your photos.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Cause you look like you spend more time scrapping at the clubs than meeting chicks... maybe it's just the picture, but someone looks me like that I'll get my fist ready.
Seriously tho, it's not about the picture, it's about you as a person, how you act, what you say to a girl, the personality that you convey to others... that's what makes the difference in girls that you attract...
Maybe you go for thos that give outright IOI's, if a girl looks hot and she's not getting hit on enough, it COULD be a red flag (I wouldn't go so far as to treat it as a red flag, but if other things start popping up...), even tho in experience, a single girl typically goes fishing in a bar waiting for a guy to chat her up, and are most often normal... normal as far as women go.
Seriously tho, it's not about the picture, it's about you as a person, how you act, what you say to a girl, the personality that you convey to others... that's what makes the difference in girls that you attract...
Maybe you go for thos that give outright IOI's, if a girl looks hot and she's not getting hit on enough, it COULD be a red flag (I wouldn't go so far as to treat it as a red flag, but if other things start popping up...), even tho in experience, a single girl typically goes fishing in a bar waiting for a guy to chat her up, and are most often normal... normal as far as women go.
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johncrawford said:
your white, you've got good hair....ass should be handed to you on a platter ;
samueladams
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haha you're fine...go sarge and see what you can pull. You're not pretty like what I see out here in SoCal but you'll be fine most places.
johncrawford
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headcase
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This girl that I know called becky is one of these.
She is the manager of a clothes shop, downstairs in the mall.
I got her name a while ago She came in for a coffee.
I got the feeling she was not into me, after several things I tryed didn't work!
So I stopped making eye contact.Looked away when she was heading toward me.Started to talk about another women that I liked etc.
Now today when I saw her she "waved" at me!
What the **** is going on with this headcase.
I walked past her shop as well,and I could see her watching me!
Is she an attention hore,or does she like me now?
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=AURQSQE-QRX
This girl that I know called becky is one of these.
She is the manager of a clothes shop, downstairs in the mall.
I got her name a while ago She came in for a coffee.
I got the feeling she was not into me, after several things I tryed didn't work!
So I stopped making eye contact.Looked away when she was heading toward me.Started to talk about another women that I liked etc.
Now today when I saw her she "waved" at me!
What the **** is going on with this headcase.
I walked past her shop as well,and I could see her watching me!
Is she an attention hore,or does she like me now?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Maybe because you don't smile?Why do I attract headcases?
johncrawford
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She does not smile herself.(much)Obsidian said:Maybe because you don't smile?
But when she does jesus christ:woo: