"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do girls think???

kegger

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Ok, I really would like to know 1. what is going through this girls head and 2. what in the heck am I suppose to do about it.

Well, I think I may have mentioned this before but its nerving.

This chick at a local hangout joint frickin is always staring at me, saying hi, etc.

I have her on msn/myspace and we chat some but I am always getting blown off with the I G2G and then I check myspace and she is still on 20 minutes later.

What do you think I should do as a revenge?

I can think of two options and know what I am going to do tomorrow.

If she is skating tomorrow, I am not looking at her, not even once. She can go **** herself right now for all I care.

Just wondering what you think?

Thanks
Kegger
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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for this type... just walk away. she didnt do anything to you.

maybe you didnt talk about something interesting to her... maybe.

for this.. walk away and just ignore her, unless she says hi... say hi back. dont bother starting conversations with her.

and if you do start convos with her (which isn't a BAD idea... but make sure they don't suck)...well, make sure they don't suck.
 

kegger

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I pretty much decided to just ignore her. I figure if she is at all interested, she will talk to me.

I logged myself out of msn and myspace for the night because I realized I was addicted. I am already having withdraws after five minutes.

I do hope she shows at that place Saturday because I have a date with an HB7.5, same as this girl. Maybe some jealousy will help.

Kegger
 

penkitten

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stop letting this chick get to you.
she is either ignoring you or she walks away from her computer at all the wrong times.
doesnt really matter which.

just ignore her back. dont let her get to you.

this is one of those times that you have to say,
i dont love her, i dont hate her, i just nothing her because it doesnt matter.


trust me on this one. if she wants to go for you, she will come around.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Shocker

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who forking cares?
 
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